Living on the edge... Of the city.

 

1. Only bring who is on the invitation. If there is no +1, it does not mean you can bring a +1. If you have a question regarding who is being invited to the occasion ask the bride or groom. They will be happy to enlighten you.

1. Do. Not. Wear. White. While wedding fashion is more creative than ever, wearing white is still a wedding attendee “no no.” Wearing white states that you wish to compete with the bride, or that you aren’t honoring her spotlight. There are so many beautiful colors to choose from…other than white!

1. Wearing red has classically been a faux pas at weddings. While it is becoming more acceptable, it should be known that this may not be approved. If you have a question of what to wear, asking the bride is best.

1. Be on time to the ceremony. You should avoid taking away from special moments by stealing attention with a late arrival.

1. Use the gift registry. It is what the bride and groom really want. Also, do not bring gifts that are large and difficult to get home. It is perfectly acceptable to send something to their residence or give to them at a later time. You traditionally have a years time to send a gift.  

1. Sending a gift even if you are unable to attend is the appropriate response to an invitation.

1. Avoid dancing until the bride and groom introduce the dance floor and take a first dance. Some receptions are more casual, however erring on the side of caution is best.

1. Avoid imbibing that may lead to bad decision making. Also, if you are partaking, arrange transportation ahead of time. This will create a better experience for everyone involved.

1. Only give a speech if you are asked,  or if there is a time set aside for open mic. Many couples wish to lower the risk of embarrassment. Don’t be “that” guest!

1. Have fun, stay positive, and enjoy yourself. The couple in honor invited you to celebrate…so celebrate!

Why do people get so weird on Facebook? They post the weirdest comments and status updates — too personal, too serious. There is where reality tv can teach it’s most valuable lesson: be careful what you do or say when you are being recorded (and in this case, post in print for your friends to read). Did the Real World not teach us how NOT to act or how one small break-down makes you look like a real psycho. People judge you on what you post, even if they are your friend. Take a minute and figure out more humorous things to say instead of letting FB be your therapy. Facebook is not a substitute for having a life. That being said, neither is a blog. :)

I cracked. I got bored of Facebook and hate the idea of Twitter, so here I am tumblr! My mom and sis have a blog, so…. Here is the plunge. Let’s see how many random posts I put up. But here’s to using my camera more often! I haven’t seen that baby in months. Anyway, so here’s to my new blog! Yay!